Ubushakashatsi bushya bwerekana ko umubano w’abashakanye udashingira gusa ku kurema ibihe bishya bishimishije, ahubwo ko no gusubira mu mateka y’ibyishimo bamaze kunyuramo bigira uruhare rukomeye mu kuwubaka no kuwukomeza. Ibi byitwa “joint savoring”, bivuga gusangira no kongera kwishimira ibihe byiza byabaye hagati y’abantu babiri bari mu rukundo. Icyo gusangira ibihe byiza bisobanura Gusangira ibihe byiza…
Hari abantu benshi bemera ko urukundo nyarwo rudasiga umwanya wo gukururwa n’undi muntu. Batekereza ko iyo umuntu akunda by’ukuri, umutima we uba ufunze ku bandi bose. Nyamara, ubushakashatsi bwo muri siyansi y’imitekerereze ya muntu (Psychology) bugaragaza ko ibintu bitajya biba gutyo. Mu nyandiko yasohotse ku wa 20 Kamena 2026, umushakashatsi mu by’amarangamutima, Aaron Ben-Ze’ev, yasobanuye…
Abashakanye benshi bagera igihe bakumva hari ibitagenda neza mu mubano wabo ariko bakabura uburyo bwo kubisobanura cyangwa aho bahera bashaka ibisubizo. Hari abumva urukundo rwagabanutse, abandi bakumva amakimbirane yiyongereye, mu gihe hari n’abibaza niba umubano wabo ukiri ku murongo mwiza. Nk’uko umuhanga mu bijyanye n’imibanire y’abashakanye Assael Romanelli abigaragaza, hari ikibazo kimwe cyoroshye ariko gikomeye…
Hari igihe umuntu areba uwo akunda cyane, yaba umukunzi, umwana cyangwa inshuti ye, akumva ashaka kumuhobera cyane, kumuruma buhoro cyangwa kumukanda amatama. Nubwo bamwe babyibazaho, abahanga bavuga ko ibi ari ibintu bisanzwe biterwa n’imikorere y’ubwonko. Iyi myitwarire izwi muri siyansi nka “cute aggression” cyangwa “dimorphous expression.” Abashakashatsi bavuga ko ibaho igihe umuntu afite ibyishimo cyangwa…
