Kuki abashakanye batandukana? Dore impamvu zikunze gutuma urushako rusenyuka

Mu myaka ishize, ikibazo cy’ukwahukana kw’abashakanye gikomeje kuvugwaho cyane hirya no hino ku Isi. Nubwo hari ibihugu bikigaragaramo umubare muto w’abahukana, impuguke mu by’imibanire zigaragaza ko impamvu zitera gutandukana zisa ahantu henshi, kandi ko impinduka z’imibereho zatumye abantu bafata ibyemezo bitandukanye n’ibyari bisanzwe. Ubushakashatsi butandukanye bwerekana ko umubare w’ingo zisenyuka uterwa n’ibintu byinshi birimo ibibazo…

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Kuki abagore bari guhindura uburyo bakunda bitewe n’impinduka ziri mu rukundo rwo kuri internet? Sobanukirwa

Mu myaka ishize, uburyo abantu bahura bakubaka urukundo bwahindutse cyane bitewe n’iterambere ry’ikoranabuhanga. Imbuga nkoranyambaga n’izindi porogaramu zifasha abantu gushaka abakunzi byatumye benshi babona urukundo bitabagoye, ariko na none bizana ibibazo birimo kubeshywa, guhemukirwa no kubura icyizere. Muri urwo rwego, hagaragaye umugendo mushya witwa “Fémosphère”, uri gukurura abagore benshi cyane cyane mu Burayi no muri…

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U Rwanda na Tanzania mu biganiro byo kurushaho gushimangira umubano.

Minisitiri w’Ububanyi n’Amahanga n’Ubutwererane w’u Rwanda, Amb. Olivier Nduhungirehe, yagiriye uruzinduko rw’akazi i Dar es Salaam muri Tanzania, aho yagiranye ibiganiro na mugenzi we, Amb. Mahmoud Thabit Kombo, hagamijwe gukomeza guteza imbere umubano n’ubufatanye hagati y’ibihugu byombi. Ibi biganiro byabaye ku Cyumweru, tariki ya 26 Nyakanga 2026, byitabirwa kandi n’Umuyobozi ushinzwe Afurika muri Minisiteri y’Ububanyi…

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Umumaro wo Guhoberana: Isomo Twigiye ku Nkende

Abashakashatsi bagaragaje ko gukabakabana ku mibiri no guhoberana mu nkende bishobora kuba bifasha mu kubaka umubano mwiza, ukwizerana no gukorera hamwe mu matsinda. Mu bushakashatsi bwakozwe, abashakashatsi bakurikiranye imyitwarire y’inkende mu gihe cy’iminota itanu mbere y’uko zihabwa ibiryo. Izo nkende zari zisanzwe zizi ko ibiryo bigiye kubageraho. Abashakashatsi barebye inshuro inkende zagaragazaga imyitwarire yo guhumurizanya…

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Ese umutima ushobora gukunda abantu barenze umwe? Dore icyo ubushakashatsi bugaragaza

Hari imyemerere imaze igihe ivuga ko urukundo rumeze nk’umugati cyangwa keke ugabanywa: iyo umuntu umwe abonye igice kinini, undi asigaranwa gito. Iyi myumvire ni yo ituma abantu benshi bagira ishyari, bagatinya ko umukunzi wabo naramuka agaragarije undi rukundo, urwo babahaga ruzahita rugabanuka. Ariko ubushakashatsi n’isesengura ryatanzwe na Aaron Ben-Ze’ev, impuguke mu mitekerereze ya muntu, bugaragaza…

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Abagore n’abagabo ntibasaza kimwe mu bwonko, dore icyo abahanga babonye

Abahanga mu by’imikorere y’ubwonko bagaragaje ko uko ubwonko busaza bitandukana hagati y’abagore n’abagabo. Ubushakashatsi bushya bwerekana ko hari igice cy’ingenzi cy’ubwonko gifasha kwibuka no kwiga gitangira guhinduka hakiri kare ku bagore kurusha abagabo, ibintu bishobora gusobanura impamvu indwara zimwe na zimwe zifata ubwonko, zirimo na Alzheimer, zikunda kugaragara cyane ku bagore. Ubu bushakashatsi bwakozwe n’itsinda…

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Ibimenyetso 5 byerekana ko umubano wawe ushobora kurangira utabiteguye

Hari abantu benshi baba bari mu rukundo cyangwa mu rushako bumva ibintu byose bimeze neza, bakibwira ko umubano wabo uhagaze neza, ariko bagatungurwa no kubona umunsi umwe uwo bakundana ababwiye ko ashaka kubivamo. Kuri bamwe, ibyo bibabera nk’inkuba ikubise ahantu hatunguranye: nta makimbirane akomeye bari babona, nta nduru, nta gutongana gukabije, ahubwo bakumva ko bari…

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Abagore batandukanye n’abo bashakanye bari guhindura impeta z’ubukwe iz’ubwahukane

Mu gihe abantu benshi bafata impeta y’ubukwe nk’ikimenyetso cy’urukundo n’urugo rwubatswe, hari abagore batangiye kuyibonamo ikintu kirenze urwibutso rw’ibyahise. Bamwe mu bamaze gutandukana n’abo bashakanye, aho kuyibika mu isanduku, kuyigurisha ku giciro gito cyangwa kuyireka ibabaza umutima, bahisemo kuyihinduramo indi mpeta nshya yitwa impeta y’ubwahukane. Izi mpeta ziri kugenda zimenyekana cyane mu bihugu bitandukanye, cyane…

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Kuki impaka nto zikura zikaba amakimbirane? Dore uburyo bworoshye bwo gukemura impaka mbere y’uko zivamo urwango

akomeyeKutumvikana ni kimwe mu bintu bisanzwe bigize ubuzima bwa muntu. Abantu ntibatekereza kimwe, ntibabona ibintu kimwe kandi ntibanagira uko babyakira kimwe. Ni yo mpamvu impaka cyangwa kutavuga rumwe ku ngingo runaka bitagomba guhita bifatwa nk’ikibazo gikomeye. Ariko nubwo bimeze bityo, hari igihe ukutumvikana guto gutangirira mu kiganiro gisanzwe, mu butumwa bwo kuri telefoni, ku mbuga…

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Uko Kwibuka Ibihe Byiza Byabaye Bituma Abashakanye Barushaho Guhuza

Ubushakashatsi bushya bwerekana ko umubano w’abashakanye udashingira gusa ku kurema ibihe bishya bishimishije, ahubwo ko no gusubira mu mateka y’ibyishimo bamaze kunyuramo bigira uruhare rukomeye mu kuwubaka no kuwukomeza. Ibi byitwa “joint savoring”, bivuga gusangira no kongera kwishimira ibihe byiza byabaye hagati y’abantu babiri bari mu rukundo. Icyo gusangira ibihe byiza bisobanura Gusangira ibihe byiza…

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Ese koko kubenguka uwo ukunda mu gihe gito bishobora kugutera kwicuza ?

Hari abavuga ko gukunda umuntu ukimubona ari ukwihuta ugize ibyo wirengagiza biba bishobora no kuzaguteza ibibazo, mu gihe abandi bemeza ko ari ibyo bishobora kugaragaza urukundo nyakuri. Ese koko gukunda umuntu mu gihe gito byaba ari ikibazo? Umuhanga mu by’imitekerereze n’imibanire y’abakundana, Aaron Ben-Zeév, agaragaza ko ikibazo nyamukuru atari umuvuduko urukundo rutangiramo, ahubwo ari ukumenya…

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Ruhango: Polisi y’u Rwanda yasabye abakora mu mabagiro n’abaturage kwirinda ubujura bw’amatungo

Mu bukangurambaga bugamije gukumira no kurwanya ubujura bw’amatungo, Polisi y’u Rwanda ikorera mu Ntara y’Amajyepfo yasabye abakora mu mabagiro ndetse n’abaturage muri rusange kurushaho kugira uruhare mu guhangana n’iki kibazo, hibandwa cyane ku kugenzura ibyangombwa by’amatungo mbere yo kubagwa. Inzego zitandukanye n’abakora mu mabagiro yo mu Karere ka Ruhango, bibukijwe gukomeza ubufatanye mu guhangana n’ubujura…

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Ese koko Gukururwa n’undi Muntu byaba ikimenyetso cy’uko utanyuzwe n’uwo Mukundana ? Sobanukirwa

Hari abantu benshi bemera ko urukundo nyarwo rudasiga umwanya wo gukururwa n’undi muntu. Batekereza ko iyo umuntu akunda by’ukuri, umutima we uba ufunze ku bandi bose. Nyamara, ubushakashatsi bwo muri siyansi y’imitekerereze ya muntu (Psychology) bugaragaza ko ibintu bitajya biba gutyo. Mu nyandiko yasohotse ku wa 20 Kamena 2026, umushakashatsi mu by’amarangamutima, Aaron Ben-Ze’ev, yasobanuye…

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Dr. Murangira Yasabye Abagabo Bahohotewe Kujya Batanga Ibirego aho Kwihorera

Umuvugizi w’Urwego rw’Igihugu rw’Ubugenzacyaha (RIB), Dr. Murangira B. Thierry, yatangaje ko kuba umugabo bitagomba gushingira ku kwihorera cyangwa gukoresha imbaraga, ahubwo ko ubugabo nyabwo bugaragarira mu bushobozi bwo kwifata, kugenzura uburakari no gushaka ibisubizo binyuze mu nzira zemewe n’amategeko. Yabitangaje ku wa 19 Kamena 2026, mu gikorwa cyabereye kuri Sitasiyo ya RIB ya Nyamata mu…

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Uko Wakwitandukanya n’Umukunzi Ugukoresha mu Nyungu Ze

Ubushakashatsi bushya bwagaragaje ko abantu bakoresha abo bakundana mu nyungu zabo bashobora gutuma umubano uba umutwaro, ugasiga uwo bakoresha yumva adafite ijambo, ananiwe ndetse atishimye. Impuguke zivuga ko kumenya ibimenyetso by’iyo myitwarire no gufata ingamba hakiri kare bishobora kurinda umubano gusenyuka cyangwa kurinda umuntu gukomeza kubaho mu buzima bumubangamiye. Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, hari…

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Ikibazo Kimwe Abashakanye Bakwiriye Kwibaza

Abashakanye benshi bagera igihe bakumva hari ibitagenda neza mu mubano wabo ariko bakabura uburyo bwo kubisobanura cyangwa aho bahera bashaka ibisubizo. Hari abumva urukundo rwagabanutse, abandi bakumva amakimbirane yiyongereye, mu gihe hari n’abibaza niba umubano wabo ukiri ku murongo mwiza. Nk’uko umuhanga mu bijyanye n’imibanire y’abashakanye Assael Romanelli abigaragaza, hari ikibazo kimwe cyoroshye ariko gikomeye…

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Urukundo Ruramba Rwubakwa Rute? Ibyo Abahanga Basaba Abakundana Gukora Kugira ngo Barinde Umubano Wabo

Mu gihe urukundo rukomeje kuba kimwe mu bintu biha abantu benshi ibyishimo n’icyizere cy’ejo hazaza, hari imibanire myinshi igenda isenyuka bitewe n’ibibazo birimo kutizerana, kubura itumanaho, kutubahana ndetse no kudashyira imbere inyungu z’umubano. Abahanga mu by’imibanire n’urukundo bavuga ko urukundo nyarwo rutubakwa n’amagambo gusa, ahubwo ko rushingira ku bikorwa bya buri munsi bigaragaza urukundo, icyizere…

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Dore Impamvu Umukunzi Wawe Atuma Uba Umuntu Mwiza Kurushaho

Gukunda umuntu ukwiriye bishobora gufasha ubuzima bwawe kujya mu cyerekezo cyiza no kugera ku ntego wihaye. Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, abantu benshi bahora bashaka uburyo bwo kwiteza imbere. Hari abashaka kongera ubumenyi, abandi bagashaka kugira imyitwarire myiza, gukomera ku nshingano cyangwa kubaka icyizere cyo kwihesha agaciro. Akenshi, abantu bashakira ibisubizo muri gahunda z’amahugurwa, ibitabo…

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Imvo n’imvano ku kwahukana cyangwa gutana kw’abashakanye mu Rwanda

Muri iki gihe, ikibazo cyo kwahukana cyangwa gutana kw’abashakanye gikomeje kugaragara cyane mu miryango itandukanye yo mu Rwanda. Nubwo urugo rushingwa hagamijwe kubaka ubuzima bwiza no kurera abana mu rukundo, hari impamvu nyinshi zituma bamwe mu bashakanye batabasha gukomeza kubana, bikarangira bahisemo gutandukana. 1. Kutumvikana mu rugo Imwe mu mpamvu zikunze kuvugwa cyane ni ukutumvikana…

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Impamvu abagore bashobora gukora ibintu byinshi icyarimwe kurusha abagabo

Mu myaka myinshi ishize, hirya no hino ku Isi hakunze kuvugwa ibitekerezo bitandukanye ku bushobozi bw’abagore n’abagabo. Hari igihe abantu bamwe bumvaga ko abagore bafite ubushobozi buri hasi ugereranyije n’ubw’abagabo, cyane cyane mu kazi, mu miyoborere cyangwa mu gufata ibyemezo bikomeye. Ariko uko ubushakashatsi bwa siyansi bwagiye bukorwa, byinshi muri ibyo bitekerezo byagiye bihinduka. Ubu…

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Menya Impamvu Ushobora Kumva Ushaka Kuruma Cyangwa Gukanda Umuntu Ukunda

Hari igihe umuntu areba uwo akunda cyane, yaba umukunzi, umwana cyangwa inshuti ye, akumva ashaka kumuhobera cyane, kumuruma buhoro cyangwa kumukanda amatama. Nubwo bamwe babyibazaho, abahanga bavuga ko ibi ari ibintu bisanzwe biterwa n’imikorere y’ubwonko. Iyi myitwarire izwi muri siyansi nka “cute aggression” cyangwa “dimorphous expression.” Abashakashatsi bavuga ko ibaho igihe umuntu afite ibyishimo cyangwa…

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Abashakanye baba bafite ibyago byinshi byo kurwara ‘Dementia’ kurusha ingaragu

Mu gihe abantu benshi bafata gushaka nk’intambwe ifasha umuntu kugira ubuzima bwiza no kubaho igihe kirekire, ubushakashatsi bushya bwagaragaje ko hari aho gushyingiranwa bishobora no kugira ingaruka ku buzima bwo mu mutwe, cyane cyane ku ndwara yo kwibagirwa izwi nka Dementia. Ubwo bushakashatsi bwakozwe na Florida State University College of Medicine, bwagaragaje ko abantu bashakanye…

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Senateri Dr Uwamariya yasabye urubyiruko kwitondera icyemezo cyo gushaka

Senateri Dr Uwamariya yasabye urubyiruko kwitondera icyemezo cyo gushakaValentine Uwamariya yavuze ko urubyiruko rugiye gushinga ingo rukwiye kubanza gufata umwanya uhagije wo kumenyana no kuganira ku buzima ruzabamo, aho kwinjira mu rushako rwihuse rudafite imitegurire ihamye. Yabigarutseho mu kiganiro cyatambutse kuri Rwanda Broadcasting Agency ku wa 4 Gicurasi 2026, aho yagaragazaga ko ikibazo cy’itandukana ry’abashakanye…

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Abagabo basabwe gufatanya n’abagore mu gukora imirimo idahemberwa

Abagabo basabwe gutinyuka bagafatanya n’abagore mu gukora imirimo idahemberwa abashakanye bakora mu ngo z’abo kuko bigira uruhare mu iterambere ry’umuryango n’igihugu muri rusange. Mu biganiro byahuje UN Women mu Rwanda n’abayobozi bashinzwe imibereho myiza mu nzego z’ubuyobozi bw’ibanze, hagaragajwe ko imirimo idahemberwa igira uruhare mu iterambere ry’umuryango nubwo hari abo usanga batabiha agaciro. Itegeko rigenga…

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