Mu buzima bw’abashakanye, urukundo nti rushingira ku kuba abantu babana gusa, ahubwo rushingira no ku bwizerane, kubahana, kuvugana no kumva ko buri wese afite umutekano n’umwanya wo kwisanzura imbere ya mugenzi we. Ubusabane bw’abashakanye, harimo n’ubw’umubiri, bushobora kugira uruhare mu gukomeza umubano wabo iyo bushingiye ku rukundo, ubwizerane no kubahana. Iyo buri wese yumva yisanzuye…
Ubukwe ni imwe mu ntambwe zikomeye mu buzima bw’umuntu, cyane cyane mu muco nyarwanda aho gushyingirwa byagiye bifatwa nk’ishingiro ryo gushinga umuryango no kubaka ejo hazaza h’abashakanye. Icyakora, uko imyaka ishira, uburyo abantu binjira mu mibanire y’urukundo n’ubuzima bw’umuryango buragenda buhinduka. Abantu benshi bashobora gutangira gukundana, bakabana ndetse bagatangira ubuzima bw’imibonano mpuzabitsina mbere y’uko bashyingirwa….
Guhitamo uwo muzabana ubuzima bwose ni icyemezo gikomeye gisaba gutekereza neza. Urukundo rwonyine rushobora kuba intangiriro nziza, ariko kugira ngo urugo ruzabe ruhamye, ni ngombwa kureba niba abantu bagiye kurushinga bahuje imyumvire, intego ndetse n’indangagaciro. Dore ibintu 10 ushobora kwitaho mbere yo gufata icyemezo cyo gushakana n’umuntu. 1. Banza wumve umutima wawe Mbere yo gufata…
Mu Rwanda, imanza zo gutandukana kw’abashakanye ku bwumvikane zikomeje kwiyongera, mu gihe abanyamategeko basaba abitegura gushyingiranwa kutibanda gusa ku muhango w’ubukwe, ahubwo bakabanza gusobanukirwa neza n’amasezerano ajyanye n’ishyingirwa ndetse n’inshingano zizakurikiraho. Abanyamategeko bavuga ko hari abantu benshi bashyira imbaraga nyinshi mu gutegura umunsi w’ubukwe, ariko ntibahabwe umwanya uhagije wo gusobanukirwa ibyo bemera n’inshingano baba bagiye…
Kimwe mu bintu bishobora kuzana ibyishimo bikomeye mu buzima bw’umuntu ni ukubyara no kubona umwana akura imbere ye. Ku bantu benshi, kubyara ni umugisha ukomeye ndetse bikaba ari kimwe mu byifuzo by’ingenzi baba bafite mu buzima. Ariko kandi, kuba umuntu yarabyaye ntibivuze ko ari cyo kintu cyonyine cyerekana ko hari icyo yagezeho mu buzima. Umuntu…
Mu myaka ishize, ikibazo cy’ukwahukana kw’abashakanye gikomeje kuvugwaho cyane hirya no hino ku Isi. Nubwo hari ibihugu bikigaragaramo umubare muto w’abahukana, impuguke mu by’imibanire zigaragaza ko impamvu zitera gutandukana zisa ahantu henshi, kandi ko impinduka z’imibereho zatumye abantu bafata ibyemezo bitandukanye n’ibyari bisanzwe. Ubushakashatsi butandukanye bwerekana ko umubare w’ingo zisenyuka uterwa n’ibintu byinshi birimo ibibazo…
Muri iki gihe, ikibazo cyo kwahukana cyangwa gutana kw’abashakanye gikomeje kugaragara cyane mu miryango itandukanye yo mu Rwanda. Nubwo urugo rushingwa hagamijwe kubaka ubuzima bwiza no kurera abana mu rukundo, hari impamvu nyinshi zituma bamwe mu bashakanye batabasha gukomeza kubana, bikarangira bahisemo gutandukana. 1. Kutumvikana mu rugo Imwe mu mpamvu zikunze kuvugwa cyane ni ukutumvikana…
