Hari abantu benshi baba bari mu rukundo cyangwa mu rushako bumva ibintu byose bimeze neza, bakibwira ko umubano wabo uhagaze neza, ariko bagatungurwa no kubona umunsi umwe uwo bakundana ababwiye ko ashaka kubivamo. Kuri bamwe, ibyo bibabera nk’inkuba ikubise ahantu hatunguranye: nta makimbirane akomeye bari babona, nta nduru, nta gutongana gukabije, ahubwo bakumva ko bari…
akomeyeKutumvikana ni kimwe mu bintu bisanzwe bigize ubuzima bwa muntu. Abantu ntibatekereza kimwe, ntibabona ibintu kimwe kandi ntibanagira uko babyakira kimwe. Ni yo mpamvu impaka cyangwa kutavuga rumwe ku ngingo runaka bitagomba guhita bifatwa nk’ikibazo gikomeye. Ariko nubwo bimeze bityo, hari igihe ukutumvikana guto gutangirira mu kiganiro gisanzwe, mu butumwa bwo kuri telefoni, ku mbuga…
Ubushakashatsi bushya bwerekana ko umubano w’abashakanye udashingira gusa ku kurema ibihe bishya bishimishije, ahubwo ko no gusubira mu mateka y’ibyishimo bamaze kunyuramo bigira uruhare rukomeye mu kuwubaka no kuwukomeza. Ibi byitwa “joint savoring”, bivuga gusangira no kongera kwishimira ibihe byiza byabaye hagati y’abantu babiri bari mu rukundo. Icyo gusangira ibihe byiza bisobanura Gusangira ibihe byiza…
Hari abantu benshi bemera ko urukundo nyarwo rudasiga umwanya wo gukururwa n’undi muntu. Batekereza ko iyo umuntu akunda by’ukuri, umutima we uba ufunze ku bandi bose. Nyamara, ubushakashatsi bwo muri siyansi y’imitekerereze ya muntu (Psychology) bugaragaza ko ibintu bitajya biba gutyo. Mu nyandiko yasohotse ku wa 20 Kamena 2026, umushakashatsi mu by’amarangamutima, Aaron Ben-Ze’ev, yasobanuye…
Ubushakashatsi bushya bwagaragaje ko abantu bakoresha abo bakundana mu nyungu zabo bashobora gutuma umubano uba umutwaro, ugasiga uwo bakoresha yumva adafite ijambo, ananiwe ndetse atishimye. Impuguke zivuga ko kumenya ibimenyetso by’iyo myitwarire no gufata ingamba hakiri kare bishobora kurinda umubano gusenyuka cyangwa kurinda umuntu gukomeza kubaho mu buzima bumubangamiye. Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, hari…
Gukunda umuntu ukwiriye bishobora gufasha ubuzima bwawe kujya mu cyerekezo cyiza no kugera ku ntego wihaye. Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, abantu benshi bahora bashaka uburyo bwo kwiteza imbere. Hari abashaka kongera ubumenyi, abandi bagashaka kugira imyitwarire myiza, gukomera ku nshingano cyangwa kubaka icyizere cyo kwihesha agaciro. Akenshi, abantu bashakira ibisubizo muri gahunda z’amahugurwa, ibitabo…
