Kwikinisha ni kimwe mu bikorwa bijyanye n’imyororokere bikunze kuganirwaho cyane, ariko abantu benshi bakabikora cyangwa bakabitekerezaho batabasha kubiganiraho mu bwisanzure kubera ipfunwe cyangwa imyumvire itandukanye igihari.
Abahanga mu buzima bavuga ko kwikinisha ubwabyo atari indwara, ariko iyo bihindutse ingeso ikabije cyangwa bigatuma umuntu atakaza ubushobozi bwo kugenzura imyitwarire ye, bishobora kugira ingaruka ku buzima bwe bwa buri munsi.
1. Bishobora kugira ingaruka ku mitekerereze
Iyo umuntu ahora yibanda ku kwikinisha cyangwa akumva ko atabasha kubihagarika, bishobora gutuma agira ikibazo cyo kwita ku bindi bikorwa bye nk’amasomo, akazi cyangwa inshingano ze.
Hari bamwe bashobora kugira ipfunwe, kwicira urubanza cyangwa guhora bahangayitse kubera iyo ngeso, bikagira ingaruka ku mitekerereze yabo.
2. Bishobora kugira uruhare mu guhindura imibanire y’abantu
Ku bantu bamwe, kwikinisha kenshi bishobora gutuma batakaza umwanya wo kubaka imibanire myiza n’abandi cyangwa bikagira uruhare mu kugabanya ubushake bwo kugirana umubano nyawo n’uwo bashakanye.
Iyo bihindutse uburyo bwo kwirinda ibibazo aho kubikemura, bishobora kugira ingaruka ku rukundo no ku bwizerane mu mibanire.
3. Bishobora gutera gutakaza igihe n’umusaruro
Umuntu ushaka kubikora kenshi ashobora kumara igihe kinini abitekerezaho cyangwa abikora, bigatuma atita ku nshingano ze cyangwa akagira umusaruro muke mu bikorwa bye bya buri munsi.
4. Kumenyera ibishimisha byihuse
Abahanga bavuga ko gushaka ibyishimo byihuse kenshi bishobora gutuma umuntu amenyera uburyo bumwe bwo kwishimisha, bigatuma bigorana kugenzura ibyifuzo bye cyangwa kumva anyuzwe mu bundi buryo.
5. Bishobora kujyana n’indi myitwarire itari myiza
Ku bantu bamwe, kwikinisha bishobora kujyana no gukoresha cyane amashusho y’imibonano mpuzabitsina, ibintu bishobora kugira ingaruka ku mitekerereze y’umuntu n’uko abona umubano w’abashakanye.
Ni ryari umuntu akwiye gushaka ubufasha?
Umuntu akwiye gutekereza gushaka ubufasha niba:
- atabasha kugenzura iyo ngeso nubwo abishaka,
- itangiye kumubuza gukora inshingano ze,
- igira ingaruka ku mibanire ye n’abandi,
- cyangwa imutera guhangayika no kubura amahoro.
Kugira ubuzima bwiza bisaba kuringaniza
Ubuzima bwiza busaba kwita ku mubiri, imitekerereze n’imibanire n’abandi. Kugira umuco wo kugenzura imyitwarire yawe no gushaka ubufasha igihe bikenewe bishobora gufasha umuntu kubaho neza no kugera ku ntego ze.
Nubwo kwikinisha ari ingingo ikunze gutera impaka, igikwiye kwitabwaho ni uko umuntu amenya uko bimugiraho ingaruka kandi akagira ubushobozi bwo kugenzura imyitwarire ye.
Izindi nkuru:
Inama 8 z’isuku ku bagabo n’abagore mbere na nyuma y’imibonano mpuzabitsina
Ibyo Buri Mugore Akwiye Kumenya ku Miterere n’Impinduka z’Igitsina Cye
Imihango Myinshi Ishobora Kuba Ikimenyetso cy’Indwara Ikomeye Abagore Batinda Gutahura
Kurara wambaye ikariso buri gihe bishobora kugira ingaruka ku buzima bw’imyanya ndangagitsina y’umugore
Uko amashusho y’urukozasoni agira ingaruka ku bwonko bw’umuntu, cyane cyane ku rubyiruko
Kuki kugabanya amabere biri kurushaho kwamamara muri iki gihe?
Sex toys” mu nzira zo gusimbura abantu mu buriri?
Impamvu abagore bashobora gukora ibintu byinshi icyarimwe kurusha abagabo
Abagore n’abagabo ntibasaza kimwe mu bwonko, dore icyo abahanga babonye
Kubura ubushake cyangwa kurangiza vuba: Ikibazo gishobora kugira ingaruka ku mibanire y’abashakanye