Abashakashatsi bagaragaje ko gukabakabana ku mibiri no guhoberana mu nkende bishobora kuba bifasha mu kubaka umubano mwiza, ukwizerana no gukorera hamwe mu matsinda. Mu bushakashatsi bwakozwe, abashakashatsi bakurikiranye imyitwarire y’inkende mu gihe cy’iminota itanu mbere y’uko zihabwa ibiryo. Izo nkende zari zisanzwe zizi ko ibiryo bigiye kubageraho. Abashakashatsi barebye inshuro inkende zagaragazaga imyitwarire yo guhumurizanya…
Mu gihe hari inama nyinshi zigirwa ababyeyi zibasaba kugabanya igihe abana bamara imbere ya televiziyo cyangwa ibindi bikoresho by’ikoranabuhanga, abahanga mu mitekerereze y’abana bavuga ko uburere bwiza butagomba gushingira ku mategeko amwe akurikizwa kuri buri muryango. Ahubwo bugomba kuzirikana imiterere yihariye y’umwana n’ibyo akeneye. Ibi ni byo byagarutsweho mu nyandiko yasohotse ku wa 15 Nyakanga…
Hari imyemerere imaze igihe ivuga ko urukundo rumeze nk’umugati cyangwa keke ugabanywa: iyo umuntu umwe abonye igice kinini, undi asigaranwa gito. Iyi myumvire ni yo ituma abantu benshi bagira ishyari, bagatinya ko umukunzi wabo naramuka agaragarije undi rukundo, urwo babahaga ruzahita rugabanuka. Ariko ubushakashatsi n’isesengura ryatanzwe na Aaron Ben-Ze’ev, impuguke mu mitekerereze ya muntu, bugaragaza…
Ubusesenguzi bushingiye ku ngingo zasohowe na Psychology Today Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, abantu benshi bifuza gutsinda vuba. Hari ushaka kwiga ururimi rushya mu mezi make, undi akaba yifuza kuba umuhanga mu muziki, siporo cyangwa ubucuruzi adaciye mu rugendo rurerure rw’imyitozo. Nyamara ubushakashatsi mu mitekerereze ya muntu (psychology) bugaragaza ko hari ihame rimwe ridahinduka: gusubiramo…
Hari abantu benshi baba bari mu rukundo cyangwa mu rushako bumva ibintu byose bimeze neza, bakibwira ko umubano wabo uhagaze neza, ariko bagatungurwa no kubona umunsi umwe uwo bakundana ababwiye ko ashaka kubivamo. Kuri bamwe, ibyo bibabera nk’inkuba ikubise ahantu hatunguranye: nta makimbirane akomeye bari babona, nta nduru, nta gutongana gukabije, ahubwo bakumva ko bari…
Muri iki gihe telefoni zigezweho n’imbuga nkoranyambaga usanga gufata amashusho byarabaye nk’ibintu bisanzwe, gusa ubushakashatsi bushya bugaragaza ko icyo gikorwa gishobora kugira ingaruka ku muntu ufashwe amashusho, ku muntu uyafashe ndetse no ku mibanire y’abantu muri rusange. Akaba ariyo mpamvu abahanga basaba ko mbere yo gukanda kuri ‘Record’ cyangwa ‘Camera’, abantu bakwiye kubanza gutekereza ku…
Ubushakashatsi bushya bwerekana ko umubano w’abashakanye udashingira gusa ku kurema ibihe bishya bishimishije, ahubwo ko no gusubira mu mateka y’ibyishimo bamaze kunyuramo bigira uruhare rukomeye mu kuwubaka no kuwukomeza. Ibi byitwa “joint savoring”, bivuga gusangira no kongera kwishimira ibihe byiza byabaye hagati y’abantu babiri bari mu rukundo. Icyo gusangira ibihe byiza bisobanura Gusangira ibihe byiza…
Hari abantu benshi bemera ko urukundo nyarwo rudasiga umwanya wo gukururwa n’undi muntu. Batekereza ko iyo umuntu akunda by’ukuri, umutima we uba ufunze ku bandi bose. Nyamara, ubushakashatsi bwo muri siyansi y’imitekerereze ya muntu (Psychology) bugaragaza ko ibintu bitajya biba gutyo. Mu nyandiko yasohotse ku wa 20 Kamena 2026, umushakashatsi mu by’amarangamutima, Aaron Ben-Ze’ev, yasobanuye…
Mu gihe hari abantu bavuga ko kubaho badafite uwo bakundana bibaha amahoro n’ubwisanzure, ubushakashatsi butandukanye bugaragaza ko kwigunga cyangwa kubura umubano wa hafi bishobora kugira ingaruka ku buzima bwo mu mutwe. Icyakora, impuguke zishimangira ko kugira umukunzi cyangwa gushaka atari byo byonyine bituma umuntu agira ubuzima bwiza bwo mu mutwe. Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe mu bihugu bitandukanye…
Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, abantu benshi bakunze kwibaza impamvu hari abandi bantu bakunda kuba ahantu hari abantu benshi, bakagira inshuti nyinshi kandi bakagirana umubano usesuye n’abandi bakisanzura mu buryo bwuzuye, nyamara hakaba n’abandi bakunda kwibera mu buzima bw’umutuzo cyane, bagashimishwa no kumara igihe kinini ari bonyine cyangwa mu matsinda mato bitandukanye cyane n’abandi. Mu…
Gukunda umuntu ukwiriye bishobora gufasha ubuzima bwawe kujya mu cyerekezo cyiza no kugera ku ntego wihaye. Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, abantu benshi bahora bashaka uburyo bwo kwiteza imbere. Hari abashaka kongera ubumenyi, abandi bagashaka kugira imyitwarire myiza, gukomera ku nshingano cyangwa kubaka icyizere cyo kwihesha agaciro. Akenshi, abantu bashakira ibisubizo muri gahunda z’amahugurwa, ibitabo…
Mu myaka myinshi ishize, hirya no hino ku Isi hakunze kuvugwa ibitekerezo bitandukanye ku bushobozi bw’abagore n’abagabo. Hari igihe abantu bamwe bumvaga ko abagore bafite ubushobozi buri hasi ugereranyije n’ubw’abagabo, cyane cyane mu kazi, mu miyoborere cyangwa mu gufata ibyemezo bikomeye. Ariko uko ubushakashatsi bwa siyansi bwagiye bukorwa, byinshi muri ibyo bitekerezo byagiye bihinduka. Ubu…
Hari igihe umuntu areba uwo akunda cyane, yaba umukunzi, umwana cyangwa inshuti ye, akumva ashaka kumuhobera cyane, kumuruma buhoro cyangwa kumukanda amatama. Nubwo bamwe babyibazaho, abahanga bavuga ko ibi ari ibintu bisanzwe biterwa n’imikorere y’ubwonko. Iyi myitwarire izwi muri siyansi nka “cute aggression” cyangwa “dimorphous expression.” Abashakashatsi bavuga ko ibaho igihe umuntu afite ibyishimo cyangwa…
