Gushyingirwa ni intambwe ikomeye mu buzima bw’umuntu, ikaba isaba gutekereza neza, kumenya uwo mugiye kubana no gusobanukirwa inshingano z’abashakanye. Abantu bamaze imyaka myinshi mu ishyingiranwa bavuga ko ibiganiro, kwihangana, kubahana no gufashanya ari bimwe mu byubaka urugo rurambye. Gushyingiranwa ni ubufatanye Abantu bafite uburambe mu buzima bw’ishyingiranwa bavuga ko mbere yo kurushinga, ari ngombwa ko…
Urukundo ni rwiza kandi rushobora gutuma umuntu agira ibyishimo byinshi, ariko rurushaho kuba rwiza iyo abantu babiri bakundana by’ukuri kandi bakubahana. Iyo umuntu atabanje gutekereza neza ku rukundo arimo, ashobora gusanga yararujyiyemo kubera amarangamutima y’akanya gato, uburanga, ubutunzi cyangwa ikindi kintu runaka, maze nyuma akazicuza. Hari igihe umuntu ashobora kwibwira ko yakunze undi muntu by’ukuri,…
Gusomana ni igikorwa kimenyerewe mu buzima bwa buri munsi, bamwe bakagikoresha mu kugaragarizanya urukundo, abandi bakagikoresha mu gusuhuzanya. Ariko ese ni iki kiba mu mubiri w’umuntu iyo asomanye n’undi, kandi ni izihe ngaruka bishobora kugira ku buzima? Gusomana ni umwe mu migenzo imaze igihe kinini ikoreshwa n’abantu mu bice bitandukanye by’isi. Muri iki gihe, usanga…
Urukundo rushobora guhesha umuntu ibyishimo bikomeye, ariko iyo umuntu akundana n’uwo batabanye neza cyangwa utaha agaciro umubano wabo, bishobora kumusigira ibikomere bikomeye. Ni yo mpamvu inzira yo gukundana isaba ubushishozi no kwitonda. Hari imyitwarire imwe n’imwe ishobora gutuma wibaza niba uwo mukundana agukunda by’ukuri cyangwa niba hari izindi nyungu zimusunikira gukomeza kubana nawe. Nubwo buri…
Ubukwe ni imwe mu ntambwe zikomeye mu buzima bw’umuntu, cyane cyane mu muco nyarwanda aho gushyingirwa byagiye bifatwa nk’ishingiro ryo gushinga umuryango no kubaka ejo hazaza h’abashakanye. Icyakora, uko imyaka ishira, uburyo abantu binjira mu mibanire y’urukundo n’ubuzima bw’umuryango buragenda buhinduka. Abantu benshi bashobora gutangira gukundana, bakabana ndetse bagatangira ubuzima bw’imibonano mpuzabitsina mbere y’uko bashyingirwa….
Urukundo ni kimwe mu bintu bikomeye bishobora guhuza abantu babiri, bakagira ibyishimo, bakizerana kandi bakubakana ubuzima. Ariko urukundo nyarwo ntirutegekwa cyangwa ngo umuntu aruhatirwe. Rukura mu marangamutima, kubahana no kuba buri wese abyishakiye. Hari igihe umuntu ashobora gukunda undi cyane, ariko uwo akunda ntamwiyumvemo. Aho kwemera ukuri, akamwinginga, kumushuka cyangwa gukoresha ubundi buryo kugira ngo…
Me Nyembo Emeline, umunyamategeko wunganira abantu mu manza mbonezamubano, yavuze ko imwe mu mpamvu zituma ingo zimwe zisenyuka ari uko abantu bamara igihe kinini bategura ubukwe, ariko ntibategure ubuzima bw’urugo bagiye kubamo. Amakuru dukesha IGIHE avuga ko ibi yabigarutseho mu kiganiro Urubuga rw’Itabazamurku, cyari cyibanze ku bwiyongere bw’ingo zisenyuka mu Rwanda. Me Nyembo yavuze ko…
Mu rukundo, kutumvikana no kurakaranya bishobora kubaho, ariko uburyo abantu babiri bakemura amakimbirane ni bwo bugena niba urukundo rwabo rukomeza gukomera cyangwa rugatangira kuzamo agatotsi. Hari igihe ushobora gukosa umukunzi wawe ukabona ko gusaba imbabazi bitoroshye, cyane cyane iyo wumva ko amagambo wabwira uwo muntu atabona uko asubiza ibyababaje. Icyakora, kwemera ikosa no gusaba imbabazi…
Hari igihe umuntu ashobora kwisanga hagati y’abantu babiri bamukunda kandi na we akumva abafitiye amarangamutima. Icyo gihe guhitamo umwe bishobora kuba ikibazo gikomeye, cyane cyane iyo buri wese afite ibyo umukundira n’ibimushimisha. Ariko gukomeza gutera icyizere abantu babiri icyarimwe bishobora guteza urujijo n’akababaro. Ni yo mpamvu ari ngombwa gufata umwanya, ukareba neza uwo mushobora kubakana…
Urukundo rwiza ntirushingira gusa ku bwiza bwo hanze cyangwa ku magambo meza abakundana babwirana. Umusore ushaka kubaka urugo aba ashaka kubona umuntu bashobora kubana neza, bakizerana, bakubahana kandi bagafatanya mu bihe byiza n’ibikomeye. Nubwo nta myitwarire runaka ishobora gutuma umusore wese ahita afata umwanzuro wo gushaka umukobwa, hari ibintu bishobora gutuma arushaho kubona ko uwo…
Gukundana n’umuntu mutabana cyangwa utaba hafi yawe buri munsi bishobora kuba ingorabahizi. Intera ishobora gutuma abantu bamwe bumva ko urukundo rwabo ruzagenda rugabanuka, ariko iyo abakundana bombi babyitwayemo neza, gukundana bari kure bishobora kubigisha byinshi kandi bikarushaho gukomeza umubano wabo. Dore impamvu 7 zishobora gutuma gukundana n’umuntu uri kure bigira uruhare mu gukomeza urukundo. 1….
Gutandukana n’umuntu wakundaga cyane si ibintu byoroshye. Hari igihe ibintu bisanzwe ubona buri munsi bishobora kugusubiza mu bihe mwagiranye: indirimbo mwakundaga, ahantu mwajyaga gusohokera, amafoto, ubutumwa bwa kera cyangwa n’ibihe by’imvura byakundaga kubahuza. Ibyo byose bishobora gutuma kwibagirwa uwo mwahoze mukundana birushaho kukugora. Ariko nubwo gutandukana bibabaza, hari igihe umuntu ubwe aba ari we utuma…
Si bishya ko umusore n’umukobwa bashobora kugirana umubano wiganjemo imibonano mpuzabitsina, ariko buri wese akirinda kuwita urukundo cyangwa umubano ushobora kubageza ku kubana nk’umugabo n’umugore. Ubu buryo bw’imibanire buragenda bugaragara mu rubyiruko, aho bamwe bahitamo kunezerwa n’ibyiza by’umubano ariko bakirinda inshingano ziwugendaho. Hari igihe umusore ashobora kubwira umukobwa ko nta mukunzi afite, ariko akamusobanurira ko…
Akenshi iyo umuhungu n’umukobwa bari mu rukundo cyangwa bari guteretana, bamara igihe kinini bari kumwe, baganira kandi bagahana umwanya. Iyo bageze ku rwego rwo kumva bakundana cyane, kuba hafi y’umukunzi bishobora gutuma bagira ibyiyumvo bitandukanye. Mu gihe bari kuganira begeranye, bishobora kugera aho umwe yifuza ko mugenzi we amukoraho ahantu runaka, ariko akabura uko abimusaba…
Guhitamo uwo muzabana ubuzima bwose ni icyemezo gikomeye gisaba gutekereza neza. Urukundo rwonyine rushobora kuba intangiriro nziza, ariko kugira ngo urugo ruzabe ruhamye, ni ngombwa kureba niba abantu bagiye kurushinga bahuje imyumvire, intego ndetse n’indangagaciro. Dore ibintu 10 ushobora kwitaho mbere yo gufata icyemezo cyo gushakana n’umuntu. 1. Banza wumve umutima wawe Mbere yo gufata…
Hari igihe umusore yohereza ubutumwa umukobwa akabubona, ariko agategereza igihe kirekire atamusubije. Ibi bishobora gutuma umusore atangira kwibaza niba umukobwa yamurakariye, niba atamukunda cyangwa niba hari ikindi kibazo cyabayeho. Nubwo gutinda gusubiza ubutumwa bishobora kugira icyo bisobanura, ntabwo buri gihe biba bivuze ko umukobwa adakunda uwo musore. Hari impamvu zitandukanye zishobora gutuma umukobwa abona ubutumwa…
Amagambo yavugiwe mu bukwe bw’umugabo n’umugore bari bamaze igihe baziranye akomeje kuvugisha benshi, nyuma y’uko umugore agaragaje ko urukundo rwabo rwaranzwe no gufashanya no kuba hafi y’umukunzi we mu bihe bitandukanye. Uyu mugore wo muri Toronto yashyingiranywe n’umugabo yari amaze igihe afata nk’inshuti ye magara, mbere y’uko umubano wabo urenga ku rwego rw’ubucuti ukavamo urukundo…
Mu myaka yashize, mu muco Nyarwanda wasangaga umusore ari we ufata iya mbere mu gutera intambwe yo gushaka umukobwa, kumutereta no gutangiza umubano w’urukundo. Umukobwa we akenshi yategerezaga ko umusore amugaragariza amarangamutima mbere yo kugira uruhare rugaragara mu gutangiza umubano. Ariko uko ibihe byagiye bihinduka, ni ko n’imibanire y’abakobwa n’abahungu yahindutse. Muri iki gihe, umukobwa…
Hari abantu benshi bavuga ko igihe gihita kigatuma umuntu yibagirwa byinshi byamubayeho. Ariko ku bijyanye n’urukundo rwa mbere, si ko bigenda kuri bose. Hari abamara imyaka myinshi batandukanye n’uwo bakundanye bwa mbere, ariko bakomeza kwibuka ibihe bagiranye nk’aho byabaye ejo. Ubushakashatsi bw’umushakashatsi Catherine Lovey bugaragaza ko urukundo rwa mbere rushobora kugira umwanya wihariye mu…
Ubushakashatsi bushya bwerekanye ko gukorakora buhoro kandi mu buryo bwuje urugwiro ku kuboko k’uwo mwashakanye bishobora gufasha kongera ibyishimo no kugabanya umunabi, ndetse bikaba byagira uruhare mu gukomeza umubano hagati y’abashakanye. Nk’uko Igihe yabitangaje, ubu bushakashatsi bwakozwe n’abashakashatsi bo muri Kaminuza ya Károli Gáspár muri Hongrie, bugamije kureba uko gukorwaho n’umuntu umuntu afitanye na we…
Mu myaka ishize, ikibazo cy’ukwahukana kw’abashakanye gikomeje kuvugwaho cyane hirya no hino ku Isi. Nubwo hari ibihugu bikigaragaramo umubare muto w’abahukana, impuguke mu by’imibanire zigaragaza ko impamvu zitera gutandukana zisa ahantu henshi, kandi ko impinduka z’imibereho zatumye abantu bafata ibyemezo bitandukanye n’ibyari bisanzwe. Ubushakashatsi butandukanye bwerekana ko umubare w’ingo zisenyuka uterwa n’ibintu byinshi birimo ibibazo…
Mu myaka ishize, uburyo abantu bahura bakubaka urukundo bwahindutse cyane bitewe n’iterambere ry’ikoranabuhanga. Imbuga nkoranyambaga n’izindi porogaramu zifasha abantu gushaka abakunzi byatumye benshi babona urukundo bitabagoye, ariko na none bizana ibibazo birimo kubeshywa, guhemukirwa no kubura icyizere. Muri urwo rwego, hagaragaye umugendo mushya witwa “Fémosphère”, uri gukurura abagore benshi cyane cyane mu Burayi no muri…
Hari imyemerere imaze igihe ivuga ko urukundo rumeze nk’umugati cyangwa keke ugabanywa: iyo umuntu umwe abonye igice kinini, undi asigaranwa gito. Iyi myumvire ni yo ituma abantu benshi bagira ishyari, bagatinya ko umukunzi wabo naramuka agaragarije undi rukundo, urwo babahaga ruzahita rugabanuka. Ariko ubushakashatsi n’isesengura ryatanzwe na Aaron Ben-Ze’ev, impuguke mu mitekerereze ya muntu, bugaragaza…
Hari abantu benshi baba bari mu rukundo cyangwa mu rushako bumva ibintu byose bimeze neza, bakibwira ko umubano wabo uhagaze neza, ariko bagatungurwa no kubona umunsi umwe uwo bakundana ababwiye ko ashaka kubivamo. Kuri bamwe, ibyo bibabera nk’inkuba ikubise ahantu hatunguranye: nta makimbirane akomeye bari babona, nta nduru, nta gutongana gukabije, ahubwo bakumva ko bari…
Ubushakashatsi bushya bwerekana ko umubano w’abashakanye udashingira gusa ku kurema ibihe bishya bishimishije, ahubwo ko no gusubira mu mateka y’ibyishimo bamaze kunyuramo bigira uruhare rukomeye mu kuwubaka no kuwukomeza. Ibi byitwa “joint savoring”, bivuga gusangira no kongera kwishimira ibihe byiza byabaye hagati y’abantu babiri bari mu rukundo. Icyo gusangira ibihe byiza bisobanura Gusangira ibihe byiza…
Urukundo ni kimwe mu bintu by’ingenzi bigira uruhare mu mibereho y’umuntu. Iyo rufite ishingiro, rutanga ibyishimo, rugatuma abantu bafashanya kandi bagatera imbere. Gusa hari igihe amarangamutima ashobora kurenga urugero, urukundo rukaba isoko y’ubwoba, guhangayika no kubura amahoro yo mu mutima. Abahanga mu buzima bwo mu mutwe bagaragaza ko gukunda umuntu cyane atari ikibazo ubwabyo, ariko…
Hari abavuga ko gukunda umuntu ukimubona ari ukwihuta ugize ibyo wirengagiza biba bishobora no kuzaguteza ibibazo, mu gihe abandi bemeza ko ari ibyo bishobora kugaragaza urukundo nyakuri. Ese koko gukunda umuntu mu gihe gito byaba ari ikibazo? Umuhanga mu by’imitekerereze n’imibanire y’abakundana, Aaron Ben-Zeév, agaragaza ko ikibazo nyamukuru atari umuvuduko urukundo rutangiramo, ahubwo ari ukumenya…
Umukobwa wo mu Karere ka Ngoma, Umurenge wa Gashanda, yabenzwe habura amasaha make ngo asezerane n’umusore bari bamaze igihe bakundana, nyuma y’uko uyu musore avumbuye ko yari yarabeshywe ku makuru amukomeyeho. Uyu mukobwa n’umusore wo mu Murenge wa Kazo bari barateguye ubukwe bwabo kuri uyu wa Kane tariki 25 Kamena 2026. Imiryango yombi, inshuti ndetse…
Muri iki kinyejana cy’ikoranabuhanga rikomeje guhindura imibereho y’abatuye Isi, mu Rwanda hadutse uburyo bushya bwo gushaka umukunzi hifashishijwe urubuga rwo kuri internet. Inyuma y’uko hari uburyo busa nk’ubusanzwe abantu bahuzwaga n’imbugankoranyambaga bakubaka ubushuti, wenda byaba bitabaye umwaku urukundo rugakomera bakaba banemeranya kubana, kuri ubu noneho abasore n’inkumi bifuza gukundana bashyiriweho urubuga rugenewe iyo gahunda gusa….
Hari abantu benshi bemera ko urukundo nyarwo rudasiga umwanya wo gukururwa n’undi muntu. Batekereza ko iyo umuntu akunda by’ukuri, umutima we uba ufunze ku bandi bose. Nyamara, ubushakashatsi bwo muri siyansi y’imitekerereze ya muntu (Psychology) bugaragaza ko ibintu bitajya biba gutyo. Mu nyandiko yasohotse ku wa 20 Kamena 2026, umushakashatsi mu by’amarangamutima, Aaron Ben-Ze’ev, yasobanuye…
Mu gihe hari abantu bavuga ko kubaho badafite uwo bakundana bibaha amahoro n’ubwisanzure, ubushakashatsi butandukanye bugaragaza ko kwigunga cyangwa kubura umubano wa hafi bishobora kugira ingaruka ku buzima bwo mu mutwe. Icyakora, impuguke zishimangira ko kugira umukunzi cyangwa gushaka atari byo byonyine bituma umuntu agira ubuzima bwiza bwo mu mutwe. Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe mu bihugu bitandukanye…
Ubushakashatsi bushya bwagaragaje ko abantu bakoresha abo bakundana mu nyungu zabo bashobora gutuma umubano uba umutwaro, ugasiga uwo bakoresha yumva adafite ijambo, ananiwe ndetse atishimye. Impuguke zivuga ko kumenya ibimenyetso by’iyo myitwarire no gufata ingamba hakiri kare bishobora kurinda umubano gusenyuka cyangwa kurinda umuntu gukomeza kubaho mu buzima bumubangamiye. Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, hari…
Mu gihe urukundo rukomeje kuba kimwe mu bintu biha abantu benshi ibyishimo n’icyizere cy’ejo hazaza, hari imibanire myinshi igenda isenyuka bitewe n’ibibazo birimo kutizerana, kubura itumanaho, kutubahana ndetse no kudashyira imbere inyungu z’umubano. Abahanga mu by’imibanire n’urukundo bavuga ko urukundo nyarwo rutubakwa n’amagambo gusa, ahubwo ko rushingira ku bikorwa bya buri munsi bigaragaza urukundo, icyizere…
Gukunda umuntu ukwiriye bishobora gufasha ubuzima bwawe kujya mu cyerekezo cyiza no kugera ku ntego wihaye. Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, abantu benshi bahora bashaka uburyo bwo kwiteza imbere. Hari abashaka kongera ubumenyi, abandi bagashaka kugira imyitwarire myiza, gukomera ku nshingano cyangwa kubaka icyizere cyo kwihesha agaciro. Akenshi, abantu bashakira ibisubizo muri gahunda z’amahugurwa, ibitabo…
Mu gihe hari hashize imyaka myinshi ku mbuga nkoranyambaga hacicikana amakuru avuga ko Inkindi Aisha akundana na Murindahabi Iréné uzwi nka M. Iréné, uyu mukobwa yavuze ko nta rukundo rwigeze rubahuza ahubwo ko ari inshuti zisanzwe.Ibi bije nyuma y’uko M. Iréné atangaje ko ari mu myiteguro y’ubukwe bwe na Nishimwe Liliane, buzaba ku wa 15…
Umunyamakuru akaba n’umukinnyi wa filime w’icyatwa mu Rwanda, Lynda Priya, yanyuze mu nyanja y’urukundo maze ahishura amayeri n’uburyo umugabo we, Christian Irenge, yakoresheje ikoranabuhanga rishingiye ku kazi kugira ngo amwiyegereze kugeza bemeranije kurushinga. Mu kiganiro cyuje amarangamutima menshi cyatambutse ku muyoboro wa YouTube, Lynda yagaragaje ko urugendo rwabo rw’urukundo rutatangiye nk’uburyo busanzwe bw’abasore b’iki gihe,…
Umunyarwenya nyarwanda Iryamukuru Etienne yagaragaje amarangamutima akomeye akunda umugore we Uwizeyimana Josiane, amwifuriza isabukuru nziza y’amavuko mu butumwa bwuje urukundo yasangije abamukurikira ku mbuga nkoranyambaga. Mu butumwa yanyujije kuri Instagram kuri uyu wa 15 Gicurasi, Etienne yavuze ko Josiane ari umuntu ukomeye mu buzima bwe ndetse amusobanurira urukundo amufitiye mu magambo yuje imitoma. Yagize ati:…
Mu gihe urubyiruko rw’iki gihe rukunze gushyirwa ku gitutu cyo gushaka abakunzi hakiri kare, hari ibitekerezo biri gukwirakwira mu biganiro by’imibereho n’imbuga nkoranyambaga bivuga ko abasore bamara igihe kinini badafite abakunzi bakiri bato baba bashobora kuzagira amahirwe menshi yo kuzubaka urukundo rufite icyerekezo igihe bakuze. Icyo ubusesenguzi buvuga Abasesenguzi bamwe mu bijyanye n’imibanire bavuga ko…
Buri mwaka mu cyumweru cya kabiri cya Gicurasi, ibihugu byinshi ku Isi byizihiza Mother’s Day, umunsi wahariwe gushimira no guha icyubahiro ababyeyi kubera uruhare rukomeye bagira mu buzima bw’imiryango n’iterambere ry’umuryango mugari. Uyu munsi wizihizwa cyane muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika ndetse no mu bindi bihugu byinshi byo ku Isi, aho abantu bafata umwanya…
Ubushake bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ni kimwe mu bigira uruhare mu mubano mwiza hagati y’abashakanye. Bityo iyo ubu bushake bugabanutse, bishobora gutera impungenge cyangwa kutumvikana hagati y’abakundana. Abahanga mu buzima bagaragaza ko kugabanuka k’ubushake ku bagore akenshi bidaterwa gusa n’impamvu z’umubiri, ahubwo ko bishobora guterwa n’ubuzima bwa buri munsi, imitekerereze cyangwa ibibazo byo mu muryango….
Mu gihe u Rwanda rukomeje gushyira imbaraga mu guhanga imirimo mishya no kugabanya ubushomeri cyane cyane mu rubyiruko, gusa haracyari impungenge z’uko bamwe mu rubyiruko bo basa n’abamaze kwitakariza icyizere cy’ejo hazaza ahubwo bakaba bari mu buzima bwo kwishora mu ngeso zibangiriza ubuzima n’iterambere. SnapChat yahindutse ahantu ho gusangiza ibibazo by’urukundo n’imibonano Raporo y’Ikigo cy’Igihugu…
Isi irimo kwinjira mu gihe cy’impinduramatwara mu myumvire ku mibIsionano mpuzabitsina, aho ibikoresho byifashishwa mu gushimisha mu buryo bw’ibanga bizwi nka ‘sex toys’ biri kugenda byifashishwa na benshi, by’umwihariko urubyiruko, abagore n’abagabo batandukanye. Ntabwo naje gukangurira abantu kubikoresha munyumve neza, ahubwo ni uko akariho kavugwa! Ubusanzwe, ibi bikoresho byari bimenyerewe cyane mu bihugu byateye imbere…
